A card can help you see it from another angle.
Notice what it brings up for you.
Think of a question, choose a card, and listen to what it has to say.
Yes offers encouragement. No invites you to reconsider the timing. Maybe suggests learning a little more first. The choice is still yours.
Ask a specific question that can be answered with yes or no, such as “Should I take this opportunity?” Notice your first reaction when you see the card.
Every draw ends with one of three answers. Here is what each one means for your question.
Commitment appears present when their actions consistently support the relationship. Keep building clarity around shared expectations and future plans.
Their level of investment may not match yours. Look closely at follow-through, availability and whether difficult conversations are repeatedly avoided.
Commitment may be developing but remains hard to read. Ask directly what each of you is choosing and compare the answer with ongoing behaviour.
