A card can help you see it from another angle.
Notice what it brings up for you.
Think of a question, choose a card, and listen to what it has to say.
Yes offers encouragement. No invites you to reconsider the timing. Maybe suggests learning a little more first. The choice is still yours.
Ask a specific question that can be answered with yes or no, such as “Should I take this opportunity?” Notice your first reaction when you see the card.
Every draw ends with one of three answers. Here is what each one means for your question.
A second chance may be reasonable if they understand the harm and are showing change through action. Keep your boundaries clear while trust rebuilds.
You are not required to offer another opportunity. Protect yourself if apologies are vague, pressure is present or the same behaviour keeps returning.
More information is needed before trust can reopen. Let them demonstrate consistency over time instead of deciding on words alone.
