A card can help you see it from another angle.
Notice what it brings up for you.
Think of a question, choose a card, and listen to what it has to say.
Yes offers encouragement. No invites you to reconsider the timing. Maybe suggests learning a little more first. The choice is still yours.
Ask a specific question that can be answered with yes or no, such as “Should I take this opportunity?” Notice your first reaction when you see the card.
Every draw ends with one of three answers. Here is what each one means for your question.
Continuing may be worthwhile if both of you are willing to repair, communicate and act on what the relationship needs.
Ending or stepping back may create needed space. A relationship should not require you to keep abandoning your own needs to preserve it.
The answer depends on what changes next. Name the central issue clearly and see whether both people follow through, not just promise.
